New Zealand. Everyone says it is an amazing place and that I need to visit it and I'd love it. So far so good.
The trick comes that for my time there is have less time and money for other things. Whilst this is true for everything else, a lot of the other stuff isn't something I want to trade (SE Asia and Central Asia (assuming I can sort the visa issues and I think I have)) or is "fixed" (travelling with a damn good friend in South America). New Zealand is probably the only thing I've got left I can trade, having decided I'll return to Africa on another trip.
Southend question becomes... Do I do NZ or somewhere else and if somewhere else, where?